I find it really hard to express the real me. I seem to write about myself and then read someone else's profile, and say wow that's me and I forgot to put that in. (anyone else find that true) So I can say that I am hardworking, loving,(i like to hold hands and cuddle) love animals (have horses, dogs, cats) I consider myself a manly man, (at the same time I am known to wear my heart on my sleeve) I am ,intelligent, I have dreams and goals, love kids but don't have any, outdoorsy, I like the cultural arts, (though I haven't had a lot of experience with them) I like to learn and try new things, I am mechanically inclined, I do carpentry, masonry, farming, ( I am restoring a 1880's Victorian) have a green thumb, I am working on building a country store/ plant nursery, and I have a love for working with the soil(from farming to my plants), I work for Cornell University, in the crop and animal section. I hope I didn't miss anything.
The reason I am on here is because I don't have a lot of time. I am trying to build a better life and a retirement right now. But I miss having that special someone to go to dinner with, relax at the end of the day with and just talk, or even just relax without saying anything , just someone being there is enough sometimes. I think relationships are a joint thing and need to be treated as so. No one is exactly alike so there has to be some compromise. I am not into big drinkers or bar flies., if your big concern is wheres the next party, your not for me. Some parties are alright once in a while but not all the time. On the other hand small get togethers at the end of the day with a cookout is great. This is me and I know I left things out. (I can't figure out what, oh yeah I have a good sense of humor and enjoy laughing) If this sounds anything like what your looking for please feel free to contact me. OOPS forgot something, No Drama Queens!